Author Archives: A Star on the Forehead

About A Star on the Forehead

I am a single 46 year woman, eager to live a full life. Trying to rebuild life after a breakup with someone that I thought was "The One". Will take classes and chances, will take tumbles and get up, and register it all here for good or bad, but always for a good laugh or cry!! I want to write to inspire but more than that I want to write to be inspired!!

10 Important Lessons I have learned from and since the breakup

The past several months have been emotionally tumultuous for me.  After almost 3 years living with Ex, he asked me to move out when I confronted him with my suspicions of his extracurricular activities.  I was in shock!  There were no … Continue reading

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10 ways I am improving myself

Dedicated to the person that kept me up last night.  Instead of sleep I got clarity, certainty and a universe of possibilities! I am stopping the voices in my head that only criticize and expect perfection.  Once I make a … Continue reading

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10 Reasons no to rush love

We are not ready yet, and there is no rush, so By the time we meet we will have dealt with all our ghosts from the past, so the future will be a clear path By the time we meet … Continue reading

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10 Reasons not to date a younger guy!

Even though I always say that given a choice I rather be a baby sitter than a nurse, here are my ten reasons not to date a younger guy 1)      You will be forever the older woman 2)      He thinks … Continue reading

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10 things that I plan on opening or making sure it stays open

My Heart – I want to have my heart always open. No matter how many times it gets broken, bruised or turned into a pulp.  Loving is still one of the best things in life. My Mind – I want … Continue reading

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10 things I did instead of exercise (and I am not proud of it!)

So I came home early from work intent on doing 30 minutes on the elliptical, instead here are the 10 things I did. Had a snack of pita chips and coconut water. Installed and uninstalled applications on my new phone. Had to … Continue reading

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My top 10 helpful phrases/words/pep talk

I have some of those written in places I see everyday and they have been extremely helpful to me. Just Breathe! Sometimes all it takes for me to get back to myself in a bad moment is just take a … Continue reading

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10 actions of my romantic man

This is you and not an act.  It is natural and not forced. YOU: Massage my feet, and leg, and Draw me a bath and wash my hair Get me flowers (buy or pick them) Kiss my neck and don’t … Continue reading

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10 things that tried to sabotage a beautiful day!

10 things that tried to mess up my day: I didn’t feel like getting up.  My body just didn’t want to move.  I wish I could stay horizontal the whole day. I am laying there just watching the clock. Finally … Continue reading

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10 things I am looking forward to

Life is better when you have things to look forward to, so here are 10 things I am looking forward to (in chronological order) : My lunch of pork, rice, beans and yucca fries from Tina’s!  I haven’t had that in a … Continue reading

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